Wow, cannot believe it's been nearly a year since I posted a blog. I'm sorry for that, not that I have any followers. but I apologize anyways. Yes I am still single. But I got on a website in March and have been talking to a guy who seems very sweet. Derrick. We are planning to meet some time in August. I am very excited, but like any American, online dating woman should be, am weary and being smart about it. My cousin, Grace has agreed to come on the date with me and her boyfriend, double date style. Safe and secure, friendly, not too serious all at once, I think I'm doing this quite right. How about you?
I'm entering my fourth year of college and I am sick of either being single or dating a jerk. My fingers are crossed for this coming semester. This, like I said, is my fourth year, wow I feel old. I'll be here for another two years. I'm an RA, so I'm out and about much more, much more invloved and such. yet still, can;t find what I seem to be looking for. Maybe Derrick will keep me on my toes, maybe it'll go some where. Summer is great fot these types of things.
Title, is thanks to Lady Antebellum. Hope all are enjoy the summer. Heres to Fall.
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Thursday, July 22, 2010
Monday, August 17, 2009
Humor Time...Can't touch this.
Small story to tell.
I have this friend. His name is Jim. (please forgive me jim, but I warned you) Jim likes to go out to bars and drink and hang out. Any normal 22 year old, good-looking, mechanically inclined man does. And this, my fellow readers and bloggers, is how his Saturday night went.
He was hanging out with a few old friends who wanted to change it up a bit and go to Albany for a drink or two. Jim, being agreeable decided this was a good idea. So they went to WaterWorks. Now when Jim went in to the bar, he almost immediatly felt out of place. There were men, and a few "women" around that didn't seem like Jim's normal crowd. It turned out, he was in a Gay Bar.
Now Jim is the straightest man I know. If ever presented with the choice to either enter this establishment, or to remain outside..he would've never went in of his own free will. He decided to man up and tell us this story Sunday morning and we all died laughing.
He was caught totally unaware and despite the Tranvestites, and manicured men he was surrounded by, he remained at the bar. Moments soon passed and he overheard something he will never forget. Now I can't quote the exact statement, because I wasn't there, but Jim overheard another of his fellow gender blatently announce that he would like to take Jim home and make him moan. (Insert laughter and/or moaning sound here)
If you knew Jim, this would be hilarious, down right hystercial.
So although this isn't about being a single girl..It is however about the things we sinlge people will do to have a good time and hang out with our friends. We will blindly walk beside them into a Gay bar and not question it or draw attention to ourselves for fear of wastinga night out on the town. We stick it our, and laugh it up the next day.
Here's to being single! ***
I have this friend. His name is Jim. (please forgive me jim, but I warned you) Jim likes to go out to bars and drink and hang out. Any normal 22 year old, good-looking, mechanically inclined man does. And this, my fellow readers and bloggers, is how his Saturday night went.
He was hanging out with a few old friends who wanted to change it up a bit and go to Albany for a drink or two. Jim, being agreeable decided this was a good idea. So they went to WaterWorks. Now when Jim went in to the bar, he almost immediatly felt out of place. There were men, and a few "women" around that didn't seem like Jim's normal crowd. It turned out, he was in a Gay Bar.
Now Jim is the straightest man I know. If ever presented with the choice to either enter this establishment, or to remain outside..he would've never went in of his own free will. He decided to man up and tell us this story Sunday morning and we all died laughing.
He was caught totally unaware and despite the Tranvestites, and manicured men he was surrounded by, he remained at the bar. Moments soon passed and he overheard something he will never forget. Now I can't quote the exact statement, because I wasn't there, but Jim overheard another of his fellow gender blatently announce that he would like to take Jim home and make him moan. (Insert laughter and/or moaning sound here)
If you knew Jim, this would be hilarious, down right hystercial.
So although this isn't about being a single girl..It is however about the things we sinlge people will do to have a good time and hang out with our friends. We will blindly walk beside them into a Gay bar and not question it or draw attention to ourselves for fear of wastinga night out on the town. We stick it our, and laugh it up the next day.
Here's to being single! ***
Thursday, August 6, 2009
I just got done watching yet another chick flick where no matter what the heroine is faced with, she gets the guy...honestly, how many times has this happened to you? I must admit that I've had moments where I felt as though perhaps I had gotten close, only to turn around several months later to be, yet again, dissappointed. You think that after this had happened a few times I would notice a pattern, but no I did not. I'm not writing this because I want to tell specifics, but rather to connect a whole group of single women who have had horrible luck with men. Now I'm leaving out my age to avoid any stereotyping, but I've had my fair share of wrongs done to me. And I can't believe that I stuck around as long as I did. (Anyone want to quote a Daughtry song for me?) In the end, after the healing I now look back and wonder why I did certain things, and why I stuck around in the first place. This will be the first of many Blog entries showcasing my thoughts, trials, mistakes, and realizations in the world of men and in the discovery of myself as well as the power to be a woman who will never again, (or very rarely) be taken advantage of again.
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