I just got done watching yet another chick flick where no matter what the heroine is faced with, she gets the guy...honestly, how many times has this happened to you? I must admit that I've had moments where I felt as though perhaps I had gotten close, only to turn around several months later to be, yet again, dissappointed. You think that after this had happened a few times I would notice a pattern, but no I did not. I'm not writing this because I want to tell specifics, but rather to connect a whole group of single women who have had horrible luck with men. Now I'm leaving out my age to avoid any stereotyping, but I've had my fair share of wrongs done to me. And I can't believe that I stuck around as long as I did. (Anyone want to quote a Daughtry song for me?) In the end, after the healing I now look back and wonder why I did certain things, and why I stuck around in the first place. This will be the first of many Blog entries showcasing my thoughts, trials, mistakes, and realizations in the world of men and in the discovery of myself as well as the power to be a woman who will never again, (or very rarely) be taken advantage of again.